Kaery never intended to become a self-protection expert or a firearms trainer. In 2005 she loved her busy days of an at-home wifey to one and mommy to 3 when a horrific circumstance took place in our hometown. In May of that year, an animal named Joseph Duncan savagely attacked a North Idaho family as they slept in their rural home, killing the parents and their teenage son, and kidnapping their two youngest children ages 7 and 9. Days before the attack, as Duncan traveled westbound on I-90, he spotted the children playing on the trampoline in their yard and he began planning his attack. This horrific incident changed Kaery’s life…
(It is too gruesome to discuss here. For specifics, click here [be prepared to be sick]. The disgusting animal that committed these horrific acts had recently been released from prison, was known to police, and a GPS device was found in his vehicle when he was apprehended. The GPS tracking placed Duncan in the same location and on some of the same dates and times that Kaery and her young children visited twice weekly for Kindermusik classes.
Thinking through what could have happened with her own kids, Kaery realized she did not have the skills nor the knowledge to protect herself or her kids. Upon research, she discovered that most self defense training is geared for one person getting away from a bad guy. But what happens when the a mom and her children encounter a bad guy? How does one defend against that?
Kaery looked for answers…
She has a Masters in Teaching degree from Whitworth University, so she knew how to find the answers she needed. She read books by Jeff Cooper, Massad Ayoob, Paxton Quigily (Armed and Female) and other books. It was apparent that she needed more than what just books could offer.
Even with all that Kaery was reading about self-protection, she was still unable to find the answer to her primary question — what tools, training, and tactics does a mom need to effectively protect her kids and herself if attacked?
Kaery listened to the decided to train with the masters of the firearms world to seek their knowledge and expertise. Kaery is privileged to train under and be mentored by some of the most respected trainers in the industry trained with Clint Smith of Thunder Ranch, Massad Ayoob of Lethal Force Institute, Ken Hackathorn of IDPA, Tom Givens of Rangemaster, Dave Spalding of Handgun Combatives, John & Vicki Farnam of Defensive Training International, Vince Luke of Martial Blade Concepts, Tim Larkin of Target Focused Training, and Scott Banks of Glock to name a few. The answer came from the joined training and knowledge gained from these incredible people.
Fifteen years ago when Kaery began her search, most self-protection tools are designed by and made for men. Finding the correct firearm to use was the next challenge, so after years of experimenting with multiple guns and carry options, Kaery found several different set-ups that work best for women. Now, Kaery passionately educates women and men what she has learned through years of research, training, and lessons from the industry masters.
Kaery is a great communicator. When she was in the Coast Guard, she was a Robert A Perchard Trophy recipient (the youngest ever), and was chosen by the Air Station Commander to be the Coms Coordinator and Community Outreach Coordinator when the Blue Angles came to town. (This was in Traverse City, Michigan). She received advanced placement for her teaching in the Gifted and Talented program at Whitworth college. She is never short positivity or enthusiasm. Over the past few years, she has developed a curriculum to take any individual from knowing nothing about firearm defense use to a person that has the knowledge and skills to make informed decisions about how to protect themselves.
She does this without the attitude and bravado that permeates the gun world. Kaery brings professional skills and attitudes into her training so that anyone who wants to know more can get answers. For women, this means knowing what firearm to purchase, and not taking the advice of the Richard Cranium behind the gun counter that wants to sell you a gun you do not need. Kaery has found a way to empower families to defend themselves and teaches it to as many people as possible.
I’m passionate about continuing my own journey as a firearms student, and pursue learning from the best our industry has to offer as frequently as I can. Below are a few photographs from training with nationally recognized instructors, across many disciplines. In addition to those pictured below, here is a short list of my training from the last couple years.
- Andrew Branca – Law of Self Defense Instructor Development Course
- Clint Smith Thunder Ranch – Home and Vehicle Defense with Tactical Trauma
- Clint Smith Thunder Ranch Defensive Handgun
- Carrie Lightfoot – Well Armed Woman Instructor Course
- William Aprill April Risk Consulting Unthinkable
- Dave Spaulding – Handgun Combatives, & Vehicle Combatives
- Chief Range Safety Officer – NRA Certified
- Range Safety Officer – NRA Certified
- Refuse to be a Victim – NRA Certified Instructor
- Pistol – NRA Certified Instructor
- Shotgun – NRA Certified Instructor
- Home Firearm Safety – NRA Certified Instructor
- Personal Protection Inside the Home – NRA Certified Instructor
- Personal Protection Outside the Home – NRA Certified Instructor